With one of the woman who claimed all men are poly I had a follow up discussion. I mentioned that after my current relationship, I wanted to explore my poly side. She said something like “I hate to break this to you, but most men are poly.”.

Really I though? That makes no sense. If all men were poly society would be different, we wouldn’t have stories upon stories of idiots killing each other for the love of a lady. So I decided to test her and I said “Really? I don’t know that many guys who are ok *sharing*.”

Her reply was: “Oh, you are willing to share your partner? That’s so open minded of you!”

Well, doh! It’s polyamory, not polygyny. It’s a symmetric relationship. My partner has all the freedoms I have. I wouldn’t have it any other way.